Loving, Nourishing Behavior   Unloving, Depriving Behavior
Respectful                      Disrespectful
Understanding   Rude, Contemptuous
Encouraging   Discouraging
Patient   Impatient
Supportive   Unsupportive
Appreciative, Thankful   Ungrateful
Affectionate, Touching   Withholding, Withdrawn
Warm, Smiling   Cold, Curt, Aloof
Soft, Gentle, Tender   Hard, Harsh
Giving   Selfish, Self-Centered
Accepting   Rejecting
Thoughtful, Considerate   Unthinking, Unkind
Compassionate, Empathic   Unsympatheitc
Acknowledging   Critical
Aware, Mindful   Self Absorbed, Busy
Listening and Hearing   Listening to Self